ayyyy ay ay can this ask get like 2817439 miles away from me
Sungmin having dated, Sungmin getting married - none of that is an issue. Date and marry and have babies, whatever, that is a right everyone has regardless of profession.
So, the thing - his actions have been unprofessional. He wore couple items on official photoshoots. He wished his girlfriend a ~sort of discreet~ happy birthday on radio with Super Junior. He has also incorporated his girlfriend’s name in to his signature which he has given to fans, and which has been included on photocards also.
It’s disrespectful. It is entirely thoughtless. There is no need to bring a relationship in to that area of his life because it brings no benefit. Being an idol is being an idol for his fans. And these actions are wholly against that.
I’ve lost a great deal of respect for him as a result. I do think his fans deserve an apology. Not for the fact he is getting married. For his actions.
Being honest, being smart, being mindful of the fans who have loved and supported him for years, would have avoided this entire situation.
sm artists leaving isn’t even sad anymore it’s a celebration like congratulations on your freedom let’s go party